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Post by Captain Malfoy on Oct 12, 2007 0:01:20 GMT -5
What would you do if....
You were a groomsman in your Best friends wedding this weekend, but you secretly slept with her groom twice, three weeks after she found out she was pregnant and a week after he asked her to marry him?
*tries to hide guilty face*
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Post by Janeway Forever on Oct 15, 2007 11:22:07 GMT -5
I guess it would depend on my motivation. If I were actually concerned that the guy were a jerk, and wouldn't be faithful to my best friend, then I'd feel obligated to tell her. Realizing that I might lose her friendship would be hard, but she would need to know the truth about the man she is going to marry.
However, if my only purpose in telling would be to ease my own guilt, then I'd have to say don't tell. I dont' like Dr. Laura. But she said something once that made alot of sense. And that is that telling something we did (if we have no intention of doing it again) simply to ease our guilt is very selfish. Because, what it does is transfer our guilt and hurt to the innocent person in the situation.
Hope that helps.....
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