Post by jcvoyager on May 12, 2008 16:30:58 GMT -5
Recently i'm having a big problem with relationships, I tend to think that everyone has a reason for doing what they are doing like this girl started being friendly to me while for the 5 years previously at school she didn't speak, so this kind of lead me to think that there must be a reason for her all of a sudden being friendly and she said it was because she wanted to be friends but i can't help but think she has another reason for doing it which is like the opposite of what she told me.
I did this with someone else as well because they said that i could come talk to them and that they care about me but then i think that she is probablly just saying that and doesn't actually mean it and she would never come right out and say she was annoyed or fed up of me but would think it and this has made me hesitant to go talk to her.
I tried to explain this to her but i don't think she got what i meant and simply said that i needed to stop thinking so much.
Does anyone else do this alot, tend to question peoples motives even for something quite innocent and even when you know at least on an intellectual level that what you are thinking is silly?
I did this with someone else as well because they said that i could come talk to them and that they care about me but then i think that she is probablly just saying that and doesn't actually mean it and she would never come right out and say she was annoyed or fed up of me but would think it and this has made me hesitant to go talk to her.
I tried to explain this to her but i don't think she got what i meant and simply said that i needed to stop thinking so much.
Does anyone else do this alot, tend to question peoples motives even for something quite innocent and even when you know at least on an intellectual level that what you are thinking is silly?
